Messaging private Instagram accounts requires specific approaches since you cannot directly DM users who don't follow you back until they accept your follow request. Here are 5 practical methods:
1. Send a Follow Request First
This is the fundamental step for contacting private accounts.
- Locate the profile of the private account you wish to message.
- Tap "Follow" and await their approval.
- Once accepted, use the standard DM button or message bubble icon.
2. Reply to a Story Mention (If They Tag You)
When a private account mentions you in their story:
- View the story containing your mention.
- Use the "Send Message" option directly within the story viewer.
- This bypasses the follow requirement temporarily, allowing one direct conversation.
3. Use Mutual Connection Tags
Leverage posts or stories mentioning mutual followers:
- Find a post/story where both you and the private account are tagged.
- Initiate a group message including the mutual friend and the private account.
- After establishing contact, they can remove the mutual friend from the chat.
4. Reply to Their Story (If They Allow Replies)
If the private account has enabled story replies:
- View their story while not following them.
- Type your reply in the "Send message" field.
- Your message appears as a DM request in their inbox, pending approval.
5. Temporarily Message After a Follow Request
Instagram provides a brief window after requesting to follow:
- Send your follow request to the private account.
- Immediately tap "Message" on their profile.
- You have a 48-hour window to send DM requests before they accept/reject your follow request.
- Messages appear as requests in their inbox requiring acceptance.
Key Limitations: Users can disable story replies and message requests. There is no guaranteed method; successful contact relies entirely on the recipient accepting your request/follow or initiating interaction.
